Monthly Archives: September 2010

5 reasons why I haven’t been blogging

5.  I got a really nasty stomach bug and it took a long time to recover.

4.  I have an infestation of stink bugs in the garden.

3.  We got a new dog – her name is Lucy.

2.  I've been reading a lot of interesting books to help my clients.

and the number one reason I haven't been blogging is….

1.  I needed some quiet, reflective time for myself.

I'm a huge proponent of quiet reflection.  Our society doesn't support quiet thought, or even just quiet for the sake of being quiet.  I have found that I need to unplug fairly often.  That means I cut down on stimuli, less computer, less visiting with friends, less visual and auditory stimulation. 

I might unplug for an afternoon, a day, a weekend, or even for a week.  My goal is for minimal stimulation and maximum quiet and rest.  This isn't the time to get my "to do" list done, it's time to let things "be."

I find that when I am finished unplugging, and ready to plug back into the wonderful busy world, I have more clarity of thought, a quieter mind, more peaceful dreams.  And I am a better therapist, because I have cleared out some of the cobwebs.

When was the last time you unplugged?  How about trying it for a day this weekend?  Or maybe, spend this weekend without newspapers, TV, radio, computer, cell phone…imagine what could happen!